David and I briefly discussed getting married today but both pretty quickly agreed that we’re not massively into the idea. I’m not a fan of marriage for a lot of reasons, the overarching misogyny, not wanting to be defined by my relationship to a man, not wanting to get married just because we’re at an age where it’s expected, basically I think it’s antiquated. I’m not saying I’d never do it but it would have to be on our terms and the institution doesn’t hold any real significance to me.
While we were on the topic though we did discuss our friends weddings coming up later this year. We have one in Cape Town in June and one in Vienna in August so we looked at the logistics of getting to both. They’ll both be a lot of fun!
World Marriage Day… 4/10 generally not for me, at least not now. Was good to starting working out our summer plans though.